# Exes

**URL:** <https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555>\
**Category:** Uncategorized\
**Created:** [May 4, 2004, 11:58am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555 "2004-05-04T11:58:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Kitiara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/7ab992/32.png) [@Kitiara](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Kitiara)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 11:58am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/1 "2004-05-04T11:58:52Z")

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Sleeping with them.

Not generally a good idea, is it? :puzzled:

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:05pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/2 "2004-05-04T12:05:58Z")

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no, it just means you’re getting re-acquainted. that’s all. =)

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:16pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/3 "2004-05-04T12:16:01Z")

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Excellent, I can cope with that. 🙂

Nice save, well done.

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:21pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/4 "2004-05-04T12:21:30Z")

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Probably not the best idea, but it is kind of inevitable.

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:36pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/5 "2004-05-04T12:36:19Z")

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no. tis a bad plan. always.

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:48pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/6 "2004-05-04T12:48:49Z")

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That’s what I figured… :hangover:

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:50pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/7 "2004-05-04T12:50:00Z")

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Well, was it a mutual decision?

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:57pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/8 "2004-05-04T12:57:20Z")

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well I slept with mine about two months ago, we were both pretty drunk, but it hasn’t changed a thing we’re still just friends. I don’t think it has to mean anything at all as long as you both agree on that and can both cope with it emotionally…

I wouldn’t do it with any kind of frequency tho, best left as a spur of the moment thing IMO 😉

Do you feel bad/guilty for doing it?

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 12:57pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/9 "2004-05-04T12:57:32Z")

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Very much mutual…

Let’s say that… hypothetically speaking of course… that you and an ex are out at a pub with mutual friends. Lots of fun, pool, live music to take the mick out of. All walk home, till eventually it’s just you two since you live furthest out. Then you just happen to jump on each other in a deserted alleyway.

Can happen to the best of us.

Hypothetically speaking. 🙂

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:02pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/10 "2004-05-04T13:02:16Z")

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ouh :beam: right kit 😉

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:04pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/11 "2004-05-04T13:04:38Z")

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Purely hypothetical. :sure:

:whistle:

:run:

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:05pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/12 "2004-05-04T13:05:03Z")

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heh heh, sounds like a lot of fun hypothetically 😛

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:06pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/13 "2004-05-04T13:06:35Z")

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I’m wondering if he’s free again tonight… :whistle:

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:07pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/14 "2004-05-04T13:07:49Z")

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> [@Kitiara](#):
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> Very much mutual…
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> Let’s say that… hypothetically speaking of course… that you and an ex are out at a pub with mutual friends. Lots of fun, pool, live music to take the mick out of. All walk home, till eventually it’s just you two since you live furthest out. Then you just happen to jump on each other in a deserted alleyway.
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> Can happen to the best of us.
> 
> Hypothetically speaking. 🙂

oh kit. you see what alcohol consumption can lead to? 🍺

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:08pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/15 "2004-05-04T13:08:50Z")

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I wasn’t that drunk, I knew _perfectly_ well what I was doing.

Except that sounds even worse, doesn’t it? 😛

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:30pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/16 "2004-05-04T13:30:06Z")

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Banging you ex is way better then banging some dude you met in the bar two hours prior.

:beam:

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:41pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/17 "2004-05-04T13:41:26Z")

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I have to admit to knowing exactly what I was doing more or less, ahem 😊

> [@Kitiara](#):
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> I’m wondering if he’s free again tonight… :whistle:

and there was me picturing another chick… gah… I’ll get my coat :run:

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 1:51pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/18 "2004-05-04T13:51:14Z")

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i think there was a song about this,

“…don’t have sex with your ex, it will make your life complex…” :whistle:  
forgot the rest of the words.lol.

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 2:02pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/19 "2004-05-04T14:02:51Z")

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Depends on who broke up with who…  
It can be considered misleading……

Although I like what Jack Black said in Shallow Hal.  
Some of the good ones with give you a sympathy root to ease the pain. 😃

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**Post date:** [May 4, 2004, 2:18pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/exes/50555/20 "2004-05-04T14:18:32Z")

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Isn’t this the same guy who got rid of you to be with another girl?

If so… I would be careful. Sure the sex part is great, especially since you already know eachother and there isn’t any of that ackwardness but is it really worth it? Is he worth being with again after what he did the first time?

I don’t know the whole situation so…

btw - IN AN ALLY?! niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice :thumb:

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