# Friend Issues **URL:** \ **Category:** random\ **Created:** [August 19, 2003, 7:48pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884 "2003-08-19T19:48:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 3:18am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/21 "2003-08-20T03:18:19Z")
O it’s a guy alright, this may make me sound gay, but I’m too good of friend with him to let him go. Ahmed, you might know this person. ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 3:18am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/22 "2003-08-20T03:18:44Z")
Arghh the irony is killing me!! ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 3:21am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/23 "2003-08-20T03:21:46Z")
Me too soul, me too ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 3:25am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/24 "2003-08-20T03:25:46Z")
Lol, and yet both of you know what I’m talking about. O the irony.:sure: ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 3:26am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/25 "2003-08-20T03:26:31Z")
Ahmed, what would you do? Or atleast, what do you think about it. ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 7:08am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/26 "2003-08-20T07:08:55Z")
> \*Originally posted by Soul \* > \*\*Arghh the irony is killing me!! \*\* Me too, argh ! ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:17pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/27 "2003-08-20T13:17:25Z")
I still wish me and him can solve the problem. But should I just quit and let it bed although I really don’t want to? ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:19pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/28 "2003-08-20T13:19:09Z")
Give it time ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:21pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/29 "2003-08-20T13:21:26Z")
I don’t believe in the ‘Time heals everything’ ordeal, but I have to admit, this is getting a bit old in my head too, I think I’m going to leave it as ‘O screw it’. Thanks all. Esp. Soul, Josh, Mike, and Voetsjoeba. ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:43pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/30 "2003-08-20T13:43:45Z")
Asa female, my opinion maybe a littel different but, I would just give it a last shot and then you did everything you can. I would send him an email, not an aim or anything so he cant block you, and just tell him…I consider you one of my closest friends, I think i may have made some mistakes(what ever those maybe) if I have offended or hurt you it was totally unintentional (unless it wasnt, which i dont get the sense that it was) and I am trying to apologize. I would tell him you understand you can make him take your apology but you are putting it out there b/c you are truly sorry and you really dont want to lose his friendship after that there is not much you can do…but I would consider being careful with your site and everything sometimes people dont turn out to be who we really thought they were…even when we trust them. hope that helps, it is what I would do ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:45pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/31 "2003-08-20T13:45:28Z")
^90% that done but with no response though. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:50pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/32 "2003-08-20T13:50:06Z")
I didn’t say give up, I said give it time ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 1:51pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/33 "2003-08-20T13:51:32Z")
Well, I guess time can be forever though. Who knows, but I’m expecting most people to usually forget or forgive within a month? ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 5:07pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/34 "2003-08-25T17:07:09Z")
> \*Originally posted by rere420 \* > \*\*Asa female, my opinion maybe a littel different but, I would just give it a last shot and then you did everything you can. I would send him an email, not an aim or anything so he cant block you, and just tell him…I consider you one of my closest friends, I think i may have made some mistakes(what ever those maybe) if I have offended or hurt you it was totally unintentional (unless it wasnt, which i dont get the sense that it was) and I am trying to apologize. I would tell him you understand you can make him take your apology but you are putting it out there b/c you are truly sorry and you really dont want to lose his friendship after that there is not much you can do…but I would consider being careful with your site and everything sometimes people dont turn out to be who we really thought they were…even when we trust them. hope that helps, it is what I would do \*\* I definitley agree, that’s all u can do.☹ ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 5:10pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/35 "2003-08-25T17:10:20Z")
I think I’ve given it enough time already. Don’t know what I should do and just about to give up. ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 5:14pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/36 "2003-08-25T17:14:06Z")
> \*Originally posted by Maxtr0sity \* > \*\*I think I’ve given it enough time already. Don’t know what I should do and just about to give up. \*\* I think u should give up. If ur freind will not accept ur appoligies or anything, maybe he wasn’t a great friend in the 1st place. But i’d be happy to be ur friend:) ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 5:22pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/37 "2003-08-25T17:22:04Z")
so who are we talking about? ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 5:33pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/38 "2003-08-25T17:33:34Z")
> \*Originally posted by asphaltcowboy \* > \*\*so who are we talking about? \*\* > I don’t think I should disclose this person just yet. Hint: He’s on this forum, and quite important (mod). ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 5:59pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/39 "2003-08-25T17:59:37Z")
> \*Originally posted by Maxtr0sity \* > \*\*I don’t think I should disclose this person just yet. Hint: He’s on this forum, and quite important (mod). \*\* Is it that reverned dude? ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 6:00pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884/40 "2003-08-25T18:00:57Z")
nope 😃 [Previous page](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/friend-issues/28884.md?page=3)