# Hi **URL:** \ **Category:** Uncategorized\ **Created:** [April 4, 2006, 7:05pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380 "2006-04-04T19:05:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Alex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/db5fbb/32.png) [@Alex](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Alex)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 7:05pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/1 "2006-04-04T19:05:00Z")
hey… im falling apart day by day and i knew that this was the only place i could turn to. I got fired im failing shop and most importantly… my relationship is falling apart. im a mess… i dont know what im doing in life any more… im falling apart… ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Maxtr0sity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maxtr0sity](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Maxtr0sity)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 7:53pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/2 "2006-04-04T19:53:05Z")
Good to hear from you again. 🙂 I suggest you take a day off for yourself. Leave everything behind, drive somewhere and relax. Don’t bring your cellphone, don’t bring anything, get in touch with yourself, camp somewhere, clear your mind. ---
**Author:** ![RabBell](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/rabbell/32/340_2.png) [@RabBell](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/RabBell)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 8:05pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/3 "2006-04-04T20:05:38Z")
I agree, get away from all your problems even if for only 24 hours go somewhere, get your brain working on the problems rather than the emotions you’re feeling just now. Look at each problem and try to come up with a solution. Your head just feels like a muddle right now because of all the problems your having and the emotions too…give your head time to step back, take a breath and think even if you can’t physically get away, just try to give yourself some time to think of a plan let us know how it goes, hoping you feel better soon :thumb: ---
**Author:** ![thesparky007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/dc4da7/32.png) [@thesparky007](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/thesparky007)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 9:09pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/4 "2006-04-04T21:09:42Z")
may be it would be better if you posted the reasons why all this happened? ---
**Author:** ![Yeldarb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/51bf81/32.png) [@Yeldarb](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Yeldarb)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 10:11pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/5 "2006-04-04T22:11:21Z")
Hi Alex. Hope you feel better soon. ---
**Author:** ![Jasninder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ba0ec/32.png) [@Jasninder](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Jasninder)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 3:25am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/6 "2006-04-05T03:25:30Z")
share more and get better advice…whining will only get you " take a day off…take it easy…it will pass kinda advices" if you really want our help…share everything and maybe some of us can help better, can understand your pain but you got to understand our helplessness too… ---
**Author:** ![Jeff\_Wheeler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/59ef9b/32.png) [@Jeff\_Wheeler](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Jeff_Wheeler)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 3:30am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/7 "2006-04-05T03:30:54Z")
I hope you feel better soon. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Templarian](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/templarian/32/7152_2.png) [@Templarian](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Templarian)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 3:52am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/8 "2006-04-05T03:52:06Z")
sry to hear… yea im with max on this one go somewhere peaceful and quite and relax it will give you time to really think and you will be in the middle of no where so you are forced to sort of view it without the ability to fix it. This will give you time to add everything up and sort of arrange what you need to do in your head without getting yourself overwhelmed all at once. And like he said No celly. thats a hard hit i remember not long ago reading about something really big that happened to you (positive)… you dont have to remember its probably better not to. ---
**Author:** ![SlowRoasted](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@SlowRoasted](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/SlowRoasted)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 4:47am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/9 "2006-04-05T04:47:11Z")
shop as in shop class in high school? ---
**Author:** ![dreeft](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/5f9b8f/32.png) [@dreeft](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/dreeft)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 4:49am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/10 "2006-04-05T04:49:49Z")
Stay strong. Use the lack of job to work on your shop projects, then get another job. Don’t worry about relationships, they’re useless no matter what age you are. 😃 Don’t stress too much on that. No matter how bad things seem, they’re likely to get worse later in life. This is just training, prove you can do it. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mlk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e56c9b/32.png) [@mlk](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/mlk)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 1:36pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/11 "2006-04-05T13:36:19Z")
Come back here and talk about your car some more =) ! ---
**Author:** ![SPAD3S](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@SPAD3S](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/SPAD3S)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 1:56pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/12 "2006-04-05T13:56:47Z")
hope ya feel better man ---
**Author:** ![grmlyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/898d66/32.png) [@grmlyn](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/grmlyn)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 2:50pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/13 "2006-04-05T14:50:14Z")
> shop as in shop class in high school? if your in high school, you now have it easy, trust me it gets worse ---
**Author:** ![SlowRoasted](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@SlowRoasted](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/SlowRoasted)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 2:53pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/14 "2006-04-05T14:53:09Z")
> if your in high school, you now have it easy, trust me it gets worse Wow way to help a bro out:upset: ---
**Author:** ![senocular](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/senocular/32/7217_2.png) [@senocular](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/senocular)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 4:33pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/15 "2006-04-05T16:33:31Z")
I wouldnt say it gets worse. Emotionally everything is blown out of proportion in high school (and younger) so even though maybe the conditions themselves aren’t practically all that bad, emotionally they can seem devestating. Just hang in there. You’ll get through it. Just take a deep breath and do what you can to make it through the day. All in all, it’ll be good for you in the end. No one said life was easy (and if they did, they lied ;)) ---
**Author:** ![chriskalani](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@chriskalani](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/chriskalani)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2006, 6:55pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/16 "2006-04-05T18:55:49Z")
open a bible… and pray… ---
**Author:** ![grmlyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/898d66/32.png) [@grmlyn](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/grmlyn)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2006, 7:42am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/hi/184380/17 "2006-04-07T07:42:15Z")
> Quote: > shop as in shop class in high school? if your in high school, you now have it easy, trust me it gets worseQuote: shop as in shop class in high school? if your in high school, you now have it easy, trust me it gets worse I would like to apologise for my earlier coments, I admit it was abit too much agian SORRY