# I hate when people get me mad!
**URL:** https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017
**Category:** Uncategorized
**Created:** [April 23, 2003, 3:39pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017 "2003-04-23T15:39:31Z")
**Posts on this page:** 8
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### Author:  [@Alex](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Alex)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 3:39pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/1 "2003-04-23T15:39:31Z")
here is my problem, i was asked to go to the movies today with my friend and her boy friend and one of my friends. i said i might go, but i wasnt sure. Now my friend cant go and i dont want to go now because i dont want to be watching the movie while they are talking to each other and not even thinking that im there. I have had this happen soo many times, and i am about to break something. they always get mad at me and turn people against me. This sucks. why does this happen to me:bad: :-\
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 3:43pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/2 "2003-04-23T15:43:06Z")
ye that sucks!
Always think of a alternative plan! “If I can’t go I’ll stay home and make a new effect in Flash - water ripple” for example! 😛
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 3:44pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/3 "2003-04-23T15:44:01Z")
if only i could…
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 4:44pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/4 "2003-04-23T16:44:36Z")
Alex - just say NO to dipsh\*t (friends?) -
…tell them you have to wash your computer 🙂
You _have_ the powah :beam:
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 7:12pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/5 "2003-04-23T19:12:41Z")
comedy “get a girlfriend” option
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 7:18pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/6 "2003-04-23T19:18:21Z")
Alex:
Be strong, don’t value your time on thier participation. It isn’t a statement on you, it just happens. I have been exactly where you are, and it isn’t fun, but you can make it enjoyable. Also, if it happens with the same couple often, talk to them about it without placing blame. Often that will make them aware of the situation without making them defensive.
Most important is to not project that feeling of being left out on yourself. They aren’t ignoring you intentionally… Take this opportunity to “introduce” yourself to other girls in groups. You have a unique opportunity, in that other women will assume you are harmless, since this couple thinks you are cool enough to hang around, even tho you don’t have a girlfriend. Next thing you know, you have met a ton of girls, and may even hook up…
:love:
Rev 
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 7:33pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/7 "2003-04-23T19:33:28Z")
Doctor Loooooooooooooooooooooooove is in the hizouse!
😉
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)
#### Post date: [April 23, 2003, 7:36pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/i-hate-when-people-get-me-mad/19017/8 "2003-04-23T19:36:41Z")
it took me 35 years to learn that…
Rev 