# Man Rant # 2; Please help me understand this one! **URL:** \ **Category:** Uncategorized\ **Created:** [April 10, 2006, 7:55pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076 "2006-04-10T19:55:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![secretinish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@secretinish](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/secretinish)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 7:55pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/1 "2006-04-10T19:55:18Z")
My office crush;The guy who said he would never ever marry his girlfriend or anyone else got married over the weekend; Turns out they have been engaged for over a year but he never told anyone until a few weeks ago and told her not to say anything that people will figure it out when he gets back and sees the ring. The only pictures he has in his cube are of his niece and dead dog WHAT IS UP WITH THAT!! ---
**Author:** ![lunatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/73ab20/32.png) [@lunatic](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/lunatic)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:14pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/2 "2006-04-10T20:14:24Z")
Sounds like a real winner. Sorry for you but sounds like you need a new crush! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![simplistik](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/simplistik/32/7747_2.png) [@simplistik](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/simplistik)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:15pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/3 "2006-04-10T20:15:27Z")
Helps keep his options open until the very last minute 😃 :evil: :lol: ---
**Author:** ![skOOb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8dc957/32.png) [@skOOb](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/skOOb)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:19pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/4 "2006-04-10T20:19:30Z")
I am married, and I dont have any pics in my cubicle…just database layouts and 15 notepads filled with jibberish. Does this make me insensitive? (not that i care) ---
**Author:** ![footsie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7c8e57/32.png) [@footsie](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/footsie)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:20pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/5 "2006-04-10T20:20:05Z")
lol…guys are all like that…u need to learn NOT to trust em…once u do that all ur worries will end :D…ermm well almost all ---
**Author:** ![simplistik](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/simplistik/32/7747_2.png) [@simplistik](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/simplistik)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:23pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/6 "2006-04-10T20:23:04Z")
> [@Footsie](#): > > lol…guys are all like that…u need to learn NOT to trust em…once u do that all ur worries will end :D…ermm well almost all Oh yea… well… well… I’m rubber and you’re glue whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks back on you! I don’t really see what the problem is though. I refuse to put any part of my love life out there in the open at my work place. Only a 2 ppl know what really goes on behind he scenes. Putting crap out there like that only has the potential to cause more drama and stress than what is needed. ---
**Author:** ![footsie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7c8e57/32.png) [@footsie](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/footsie)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:27pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/7 "2006-04-10T20:27:36Z")
^err whts gotten into u???lol chill…relaxxx ---
**Author:** ![skOOb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8dc957/32.png) [@skOOb](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/skOOb)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:27pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/8 "2006-04-10T20:27:38Z")
> [@simplistik](#): > > I refuse to put any part of my love life out there in the open at my work place. … Putting crap out there like that only has the potential to cause more drama and stress than what is needed. indeed…nicely put ---
**Author:** ![secretinish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@secretinish](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/secretinish)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:32pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/9 "2006-04-10T20:32:00Z")
> [@simplistik](#): > > Oh yea… well… well… I’m rubber and you’re glue whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks back on you! > > I don’t really see what the problem is though. I refuse to put any part of my love life out there in the open at my work place. Only a 2 ppl know what really goes on behind he scenes. Putting crap out there like that only has the potential to cause more drama and stress than what is needed. I think you are right but he is the one that was telling people that and how annoying she can be. I’ve had a bad day so that just bummed me out; ---
**Author:** ![lunatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/73ab20/32.png) [@lunatic](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/lunatic)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:33pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/10 "2006-04-10T20:33:18Z")
> [@skOOb](#): > > Does this make me insensitive? (not that i care) :lol: read that back to yourself ---
**Author:** ![secretinish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@secretinish](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/secretinish)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:34pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/11 "2006-04-10T20:34:32Z")
> [@lunatic](#): > > Sounds like a real winner. Sorry for you but sounds like you need a new crush! 🙂 Ha Ha Yeah I think you are right; Actually he is my lustman; A person you secretly lust for but don’t take it seriously and you know it is just a fantasy:flower: ---
**Author:** ![simplistik](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/simplistik/32/7747_2.png) [@simplistik](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/simplistik)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:39pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/12 "2006-04-10T20:39:28Z")
> [@Footsie](#): > > ^err whts gotten into u???lol chill…relaxxx I’m chillaxed, no worries… was just bein silly w/ the rubber and glue thing… :lol: > [@secretinish](#): > > I think you are right but he is the one that was telling people that and how annoying she can be. :lol: oh well then, maybe he was tryin to decieve everyone :lol: who knows. I can’t say that I’d do that, but ya know… everyone needs someone to let some steam out. I mean… I rarely hear ppl talk about the good things about their partners… it’s just not as entertaining 😃 :lol: ---
**Author:** ![DDD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc348/32.png) [@DDD](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/DDD)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:42pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/13 "2006-04-10T20:42:35Z")
> [@simplistik](#): > > Helps keep his options open until the very last minute 😃 :evil: :lol: exactly… ---
**Author:** ![SlowRoasted](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@SlowRoasted](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/SlowRoasted)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:44pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/14 "2006-04-10T20:44:24Z")
Yeah I don’t usually bring up my relationship status at work unless im asked. No pics on the desk, no desktop pics. I dunno why I do that. ---
**Author:** ![Digitalosophy](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/digitalosophy/32/1114_2.png) [@Digitalosophy](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Digitalosophy)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 8:48pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/15 "2006-04-10T20:48:15Z")
> [@secretinish](#): > > My office crush;The guy who said he would never ever marry his girlfriend or anyone else got married over the weekend; Turns out they have been engaged for over a year but he never told anyone until a few weeks ago and told her not to say anything that people will figure it out when he gets back and sees the ring. The only pictures he has in his cube are of his niece and dead dog > > WHAT IS UP WITH THAT!! don’t hate the playa hate the game baby girl :lol: j/k u dont wanna mess with dudes from work. me and my friends from work just talk about all the girls here and share stories about them. you dont want to be like one of them do ya? ---
**Author:** ![secretinish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@secretinish](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/secretinish)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 9:02pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/16 "2006-04-10T21:02:09Z")
> [@SlowRoasted](#): > > Yeah I don’t usually bring up my relationship status at work unless im asked. No pics on the desk, no desktop pics. I dunno why I do that. I don’t have a lot of pics either really; We were all surprised as this has never seemed the happiest of unions. Oh well you all made me laugh and smile:lol: ; Thanks and Thank God the day is over:krazy: ---
**Author:** ![secretinish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@secretinish](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/secretinish)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 9:02pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/17 "2006-04-10T21:02:51Z")
> [@Digitalosophy](#): > > don’t hate the playa hate the game baby girl :lol: j/k > > u dont wanna mess with dudes from work. me and my friends from work just talk about all the girls here and share stories about them. you dont want to be like one of them do ya? NO I DON"T!! :flower: ---
**Author:** ![ditt0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/90db22/32.png) [@ditt0](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/ditt0)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 9:11pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/18 "2006-04-10T21:11:39Z")
> [@Footsie](#): > > lol…guys are all like that…u need to learn NOT to trust em…once u do that all ur worries will end :D…ermm well almost all I don’t have pics of the loved one at work. In fact I don’t have any personal picture here at all. Exactly as simp said, nobody at work needs to know what’s going on in my life. And they’d better not ask :hitman2: If someone makes assumptions…well, too bad for them. You can’t judge a person by what he’s not telling. And certainly can’t extend that judgement to all men…but time will pass and you’ll see:) ---
**Author:** ![secretinish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@secretinish](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/secretinish)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2006, 9:28pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/man-rant-2-please-help-me-understand-this-one/185076/19 "2006-04-10T21:28:31Z")
:lol:… everyone needs someone to let some steam out. I mean… I rarely hear ppl talk about the good things about their partners… it’s just not as entertaining 😃 :lol:[/quote] I am guilty of that; I complain about my other half but only to my close freinds in the office. And then I get to hear about how in love they are:{ (Actually only one annoys me; My other friend is too cute and deserves someone good:snug:)