# Romance advice question

**URL:** <https://forum.kirupa.com/t/romance-advice-question/218700>\
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**Created:** [March 9, 2007, 9:13pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/romance-advice-question/218700 "2007-03-09T21:13:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![samsoner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7cd45c/32.png) [@samsoner](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/samsoner)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2007, 9:13pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/romance-advice-question/218700/1 "2007-03-09T21:13:56Z")

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What can a man do to put a woman at ease without friendzoning himself into the “Nice Guy” role?

This woman is a complete stranger to him, or she could also be a woman who has developed several prejudices against him because various friends said that he was a loser, boring, etcera.

Another question: How is that possible that women give guys a chance to flirt with them even though they are not attracted to those men initially? In my experiences, if a woman isn’t attracted to me, she stays that way.

Thanks