# What Should I do? **URL:** \ **Category:** Uncategorized\ **Created:** [August 13, 2004, 9:13am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300 "2004-08-13T09:13:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![FlashPlaya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e274bd/32.png) [@FlashPlaya](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/FlashPlaya)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 9:13am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/1 "2004-08-13T09:13:27Z")
So… I am kinda dating this girl, who is really hot!!" like a 9" and she just went out of town… Should I call her?? Man… I kinda like her. But I think that she is into the cool guy. So what should I do, call?? or just act like I do not care. I know telliing her what I feel will be super coo… but?? Man? how is it that that I am asking you guys how to run my love life??? What ever… I know you guys are there for me:) ---
**Author:** ![mlk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e56c9b/32.png) [@mlk](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/mlk)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 9:20am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/2 "2004-08-13T09:20:37Z")
Definitely shut down your PC & go ! Ie this shouldn’t be the kind of questions you post here, you’ve got to feel such things by yourself 😕 ---
**Author:** ![DariusMonsef](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a6a055/32.png) [@DariusMonsef](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/DariusMonsef)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 9:26am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/3 "2004-08-13T09:26:28Z")
“Kinda dating this girl” What does that mean? Where did she go? How long is she going to be gone? ---
**Author:** ![simononestop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8c91f0/32.png) [@simononestop](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/simononestop)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 9:32am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/4 "2004-08-13T09:32:14Z")
:mu: my only advise “be your self” if she is a 9 you aint gunna get much better,(as you can never get a 10 or a 1). If you like her its only gunna mess your head up, if you don’t do something. Don’t do the acting like you don’t care thing, coz women really do want you to care, she might just be putting on a front, and don’t do the obsessive “I love you” thing. Some where in the middle. txt her coz it’s easier, just say something like “aint seen you around for a while, know you’re a busy girl, if you want a drink some time, let me know” that’s cool but kind of in the middle. Also if she is the kind of girl who always wants the cool guy “give up” she is probably going through her “I like bad boy’s stage” and going from guy to guy. Hope this helps a bit,see both my flatmates are girls so I kind of hear this all the time. ---
**Author:** ![DariusMonsef](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a6a055/32.png) [@DariusMonsef](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/DariusMonsef)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 9:56am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/5 "2004-08-13T09:56:06Z")
What’s her name and number? I’ll take her out and see if she likes you… ---
**Author:** ![El\_Thierro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/858c86/32.png) [@El\_Thierro](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/El_Thierro)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 9:59am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/6 "2004-08-13T09:59:43Z")
If she’s 9, then you’d better lay off before the cops get you :cop: 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Jasninder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ba0ec/32.png) [@Jasninder](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Jasninder)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 10:00am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/7 "2004-08-13T10:00:47Z")
as simon said, be urself…does’nt matter how hot she is but if u be someone else to impress her, guess it wont last forever, will it? do what U would have done already, instead of posting a thread over here. ---
**Author:** ![Jasninder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ba0ec/32.png) [@Jasninder](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/Jasninder)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 10:01am UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/8 "2004-08-13T10:01:36Z")
lol @ EL & Ethan 😛 ---
**Author:** ![worm](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/worm/32/235_2.png) [@worm](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/worm)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 4:34pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/9 "2004-08-13T16:34:19Z")
Listen here FlashP, dont listen to none oh these cats. Take it from a fella playa from around the waya. When we requesting chicks, this is wat we saya My name is Flash P representing Santa M Where we roll all in wips newer dan dems what i really wanna say to you let u know is that i like u flava really digging u flow If u wanna see where our love could go U could hit me up sometime time I dont know Maybe discuss all ur dreams and where u wanna go wit ur life and me in it to star ur show. guaranteed success or at least a smile! dwl ---
**Author:** ![bwh2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8c91f0/32.png) [@bwh2](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/bwh2)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 4:45pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/10 "2004-08-13T16:45:18Z")
if you don’t call, you’ll never know. ---
**Author:** ![FlashPlaya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e274bd/32.png) [@FlashPlaya](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/FlashPlaya)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 4:45pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/11 "2004-08-13T16:45:49Z")
Thanks everyone!!! EthanM, ez west hollywood (LA)?🙂 She lives right there, lol. We’ll see?? simononestop, thanks for the advice!! Sorry mlk I thought this was a Random forum?? Worm. That was great!!! I love it!!! Yeah well see? I think I am just going to play it by ear. That was great worm! Thanks guys!! ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/uploads/kirupa/original/3X/6/2/621e5c11736f46532526e61be85940af4230f3e5.png) [@system](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 4:52pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/12 "2004-08-13T16:52:13Z")
I find that being sweet and curtious get’s you nowhere with females :sigh: I tend to get stomped on when I do stuff like that, the girl I’m with now I treat nicely but I don’t go overboard, she goes on vaca, well then call me or we don’t talk until she get’s back. But if she disses you for not calling don’t blame me 😉 ---
**Author:** ![FlashPlaya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e274bd/32.png) [@FlashPlaya](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/FlashPlaya)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 4:57pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/13 "2004-08-13T16:57:23Z")
Digitalosophy, You are so right! When act like I don’t care, they seem to like it so much more. I really think that is how it is in the “bars” in the beginning. But we’ll see??? I think she is pretty cool. But I am not going to trip. Whatever happens, happens:) ---
**Author:** ![worm](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex011/user_avatar/forum.kirupa.com/worm/32/235_2.png) [@worm](https://forum.kirupa.com/u/worm)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2004, 5:18pm UTC](https://forum.kirupa.com/t/what-should-i-do/119300/14 "2004-08-13T17:18:36Z")
So true. Women want anything but a man they can step over. Women (the straight ones atleast) want a **man** not a rug. I can never see how some guys can just suck up to women doing any and everything **she** wants and expect the relationship to last. It wont, cuz for the most part, when woman push you to the limit, they want you to push back. Not get wimpy.