Annoying "click to activate" feature

I read the fix on this “feature” on the newer versions of IE. The tutorial works great and fixes the problem. However, i am also using the line

<param name=‘WMode’ value=‘Transparent’>

in my code so that the flash ad appears BEHIND the fireworks-generated drop down menu. Now with the fix for the IE issue, the flash ad again appears in front of the drop down menu. I need a new fix for this, that will solve both issues. Any ideas??