Iāve never had a blog. I just keep it all inside, waiting to explode.
i donāt get blogs, whenever i am stressed or something, what i do is get a cardboard ox , and start smashing it with a baseball bat
ROFL!
Yah I donāt care much if Iām venting, but then I donāt have much personal things between me and good friends. I usually just am mad at people I donāt know. The real problem is girlsā¦ sigh, isnāt it always? I justā¦ well I keep thinking about how someday Iām gonna have a g/f (oh dear god PLEASE, heh), and then sheās gonna read my blog and be like, āWhat the heck, you wrote this about me like months ago?ā I jsut think it would be weird, haha.
Haha, my friend and his girlfriend used to get into fights all the time when they read eachothers blogs. I think itās best to not let your significant other read your blog Because if it was an issue you needed to address to them, you will do it when you are ready, otherwise itās just an issue that you needed to vent at that time and will get overā¦ but it wonāt be interpreted as such by them.
wellā¦ call me old fashionedā¦ but if i have a problem i usually TALK to someone about itā¦ ;)ā¦
although i dunno, i rarely get stressed or worry about ANYTHING, and when i do i just kinda stop for a few seconds, realize it, then iām all good again. itās a great way to live, i mean who really needs all that stress and worry? unless the problem could have eternal consequences (literally) then itās not important enough to get uptight about.
Not everyone has someone to talk to.
And I would really like it if you could share your āstop for a few secondsā method to make the world around you alright again. Iāve tried that, definitely hasnāt helpedā¦ all my problems still existedā¦ I just wasted a few seconds I could have used trying to fix them
I think what he means is, if you have the mindset that nothing is worth stressing out over, then stress is hardly ever an issue and at those moments when you feel like youāre going out of your mind (for whatever reason), it only takes a few seconds to realize that itās silly to be stressed out over it. If you have a problem to solve, you need a clear mind, not one thatās thinking āOMG OMG I have to finish all this by tonight and if I donāt, Iāll die or something!ā It is possible, with practice, to train yourself to clear your mind of stress in a few seconds.
I avoid that situation by just not talking about really personal stuff. Besides I feel that when I write about stuff like that it makes me depressed and angrey at everyone. So mostly I just write about the positive things and non personal stuff.
k, well you asked. so i shall tell. no flaming tho :red:
ā¦ PRAY. thatās it. thatās all. just a littleā¦ āGod, Iām givin it to you. donāt want it to bother me, you deal with it.ā Thatās it. Itās gone. Heāll listen. Heāll take it, deal with it and keep you stress free.
oh, and hifi has the right idea too. itās all about the mindset. i believe itās not worth stressing over. God can take care of it, I donāt have to. (yes, i realize hifi didnāt say the second part.)
so. IMO. yes, everyone does have someone to talk to. whether you believe that or believe it will work is your choice. but it does for me. and iām LOVIN it.
Donāt like what i just said? sorry. i really am. ignore it and move on :). but hey, yāall asked.
Well iām not going to flame you. You are free to believe what you wish. Though I personally am not religious so I will not be using your method. Thank you for sharing though
no worries :)ā¦ i figured that would be the response. like i said, believe it or not, youāre choice. (oh, and thanks for not flaming :P)
p.s. iām not āreligiousā either. but thatās another story. lol feel free to p.m. if curious, donāt bother posting. BACK TO THE BLOGGING!
Blogs are really getting out your feelings and things that make you feel happy or angry, goes there. It doesnt have to be too personal but thats up to you. The point of putting up one is not for people to read because seriously, not everyone is going to sit down and mourn your sorrows or feel what you feel unless your some great designer so you read what there up to. [size=1](yes i admit, i read lostinbetaās blog ā¦ :beam: hes a great designer, what can i say? lolz) [/size][size=2]If people read your blog and they feel critized or feel angry, well everyone has a right to their own opinion. Blogs arent really for peopleās benefit but your own. Otherwise, just go get some of your momās dishes, head back to your backyard and throw some to the ground like the Japs do ;)[/size]
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Yah Iām quoting myself.
But I wrote this earlier thinking how I really had nothing in life to vent about that I hadnāt vented about before, and then, today I found out Iām getting passed over for SL AGAIN and I was sooo pissed. I wrote about it in the blog and finally made good use of it
And, I would like to say I got over itā¦ but I havenāt yet. I had to work 8 hrs though and it was really busy and fast paced so I put it back for a while, but just before work I was so depressed.
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I guess Iām what you could call a compulsive blogger. Needless to say thatās why this caught my attention. Going a day or more without blogging just feels really weird, and Iām not really sure why. Itās not like I use the blog as a therapeutic mechanism or anything, though that is an appealing and cost-saving ideaā¦
In any case, I guess Iāve never really been bothered by the idea of having my thoughts out in the open. Most of whatās in my blog isnāt super-personal anyway, itās mostly just the spawn of my boredom and random thoughts that float around in my head and merge together and lead into random tangents that happen to be remotely interesting to some people, considering the fact that I have friends that actually read it.
Never really thought about using names in my blog, Iāve done it all the time. I guess it never occurred to me that it may be remotely offensive to anyone because the stuff I say usually isnāt too negative. hehe.
Anywayā¦ blogging is fun, I guess.
i write some pretty personal info on my blog:) since i dont get many hits. like 36 a day http://deadbodies.us
this is off topic.
jesus crist i got 461 hits yesterday. seems inpossble. dont know how:)
but also i been getting lots of hits on mycrohsoft also:) i am really happy right now
Wow. I only get like 30.
Bloggers do it by themselves in public.
I love when people watch.