Can I make my flash do this?

I have a flash menu that I’m trying to use throughout my site, but the problem I’m experiencing is that none of the buttons are staying depressed (when I upload it…when I preview, it’s fine). I’m thinking this is because I have the object on every page that I need the menu on.

Is there a way to put the flash menu in a css and just reference that css where the menu should be on each page? This way, it’s only ONE menu throughout the site?