Controlling an FLV component in a child?

Hey all…

I have been trying all day to find a solution to this, to no avail…

My project has a frame built in flash that loads an external swf via the addChild command.

In that external swf, there is an FLV playback component that plays videos on the video tab. (There are home, video, web and contact tabs all in the parent swf)

What I want, is for the FLV component to stop playing the video when one of the other tabs is clicked in the parent swf…

Anyone that can help will be appreciated.