Controlling swf

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[FONT=Arial][COLOR=#494920]If someone could help on the following much will be appreciated:
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[FONT=Arial][COLOR=#494920]Does anyone know how to control separate swf’s in one html.

Problem :One swf needs to tell the second swf to go to and stop at a specific frame and they are both in the same HTML.

[/COLOR][/FONT][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#494920]Im having trouble writting the actionscripting that specifies the other swf to gotoAndstop at a certain flag.

how do I change this, so it can say what I want it to do?

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[FONT=Arial][COLOR=#494920]I got the following actionscript from this site. [/COLOR][/FONT]
[FONT=Arial][COLOR=#494920][COLOR=#000000]http://www.adobe.com/cfusion/knowledgebase/index.cfm?id=tn_16243[/COLOR]

incoming_lc = new LocalConnection ();
incoming_lc.methodToExecute = function (param) {
sentMessage.text = param;
};

And I am not communicating and sending messages to the other swf.

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