Custom Video Bar W Embedded Video?

Hey Kirupa, I got a question I seen the tutorials at gotoandlearn for the custom video bar. What I got so far is video being embedded into the swf from and plays fine, but I did not want to use a video bar that they have in flash already, I personally think their ugly. Was wondering how would I go about creating a custom video bar with a video that is embeeded and played from a website like etc? Ifthere is a tutorial for this can you please provide the link, I do not expect ppl to do it for me, or an example of this somewhere can someone please help.

Thanks :}