Deperatly seeking help

Hi have this flash xml menu that loads external swf files like this:

<item   title="ABOUT"		content_path="http://mysite.com/folder1/folder2/folder3/about.swf"			target=""		mouse_rollover_color="0xFFFFFF"   mouse_rollout_color="0xDDDDDD" />

and I have this swf file with cms that I’d like for this menu to load. Currently the swf file load external text using this code:

if (contenturl1 ne "") {
	loadVariablesNum(contenturl1 + "/" + userid + "/content.txt", 0);
} else {
	loadVariablesNum("content.txt", 0);
}

but when the xml menu loads this swf file its structure loads but not its data.

I tried using :

this._lockroot = true;

in the loading swf main time line but it did not work.

I should also mention that the dynamic data that loads onto the swf that is to be loaded by the menu, resides not in it main time line but 4 movie clips deep
I don’t know if that makes a difference or not.

Any help would be greatly appreciated as I don’t know what else to do and I’ve been wrestling with this problem for a year now with no solution. my friend who is a really good flash coder says it can’t be done and I’m starting to believe that his right.

the file is action script 2.0