Dreamweaver/SWF load order control

I have a site I am working on right now http://www.fgv.com/pengate/home.htm and its the first time I’ve tryed to use flash and html/dreamweaver togther. I am having trouble getting the page to load in the order I want. The page is small and loads fast on almost any system but on 56K it takes 10-15 seconds. Thats enough time to see the flash movie load first and the surrounding graphics start and then stop loading till the flash movie is done. What can I do? I’ve looked everywhere and the few solutions I found just seemed so much harder than they needed to be. Is it really going to be that hard to get this to happen? I could really use some help! Thanks.