External database access prevented: please help!

external database access prevented: please help!

Dear Friends,

We are developing a multiplayer flash game[hosted in flashtampa.com] which needs access to our database in learnwithunclepaul.com.[bluehost server]

Unfortunately we can’t connect to external database.

Please can somebody assist us or guide us in the right direction. We will provide any additional info if needed. Please this is a very urgent issue and is very crucial for us.

Even minor helps will be deeply appreciated!

Eagerly looking forward
sparklez

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Test flash application source code

Pls download a sample test application from here
http://www.learnwithunclepaul.com/Login.zip

Test flash applications

http://www.learnwithunclepaul.com/Login.swf - Status:“nimnim Logging in”
http://es.www.701108.flashtampa.com/Login.swf - Status:“can’t connect”

username : nimnim
password : nimnim

Problem details & code used

Database access from the same host works fine!
myVars.sendAndLoad("_Login.php?random="+new Date().getTime(), myVars);
http://www.learnwithunclepaul.com/Login.swf - Status:“nimnim Logging in”

We can’t access the database from external host!
myVars.sendAndLoad(“http://69.89.28.115/_Login.php?random=”+new Date().getTime(), myVars);
http://es.www.701108.flashtampa.com/Login.swf - Status:“can’t connect”