Externally loaded contact form

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sorry, i know this topic has been done to death but ive gone through all the searched threads, but nothing seems to be fixing my prob

ive got main.swf, and im loading contact.swf which contains the form based on senoculars tut
on my send button i have

on (release) {
    if (form.n_ame.text.length == 0) {
        error.gotoAndPlay("name");
    }else if (form.e_mail.text.length == 0 || form.e_mail.text.indexOf("@") == -1 || form.e_mail.text.indexOf(".") == -1) {
        error.gotoAndPlay("email");
    }else if (form.s_ubject.text.length == 0) {
        error.gotoAndPlay("subject");
    }else if (form.m_essage.text.length == 0) {
		error.gotoAndPlay("message");
	}else{
		_parent.container.form.loadVariables("email.php", "POST");
		_level0.container.form.loadVariables("email.php", "POST");
		_root.container.form.loadVariables("email.php", "POST");
		form.loadVariables("email.php", "POST");
		form.m_essage.text = "Sent";
		form.n_ame.text = "Sent";
		form.e_mail.text = "Sent";
		form.s_ubject.text = "Sent";
		form.p_hone.text = "Sent";
		form.w_ebsite.text = "Sent";
    }	
}

container is the instance of the mc that contact.swf is loaded into, and i set parent, level0, root, so theres no way id miss it, and the chmod on the server is 777
i know the conditions are working because the sent messages appear, however i dont recieve any emails, ive checked my junk/filters etc, nothing
;o if anyone can help out i’d really appreciate it
thanks in advance