Flash menu help -- I need a delay

I have a menu that works really well, however sometimes it is hard for users to get to the submenus because there is no delay between when they roll off the main menu item till the next one pops up. They currently can avoid this by rolling the mouse straight down, and then over, but that isn’t necessarily intuitive. I based everything in the menu from the kirupa tutorial, so most of you should be familiar with it. The main difference is I added some rollover effects and made it horizontal instead of vertical.

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I need a delay. I’ve tried a bunch of stuff but I can’t get anything to work. I’m sure if you take a look at the flash source you’ll see it’s apparent what is needed.