Flash Video Event Cue Question

Here is my situation. I have an flv with two event cue points. I have placed a FLVPlayback into my movie and called the instance “my_video”.

All I want to do is have my “begin” cue point tell my movie to gotoandstop at frame 18 and then the second cue point “white flash” to tell the movie to gotoandplay at frame 19.

Thats it…I’ve poured over the help files and all over the forums and I still can’t seem to get my head wraped around this.

I’m usually pretty good at picking this stuff up but now I’m so frustrated and I can’t think straight.

Please help!!