Flv player wont load controls

I’m using this flv player(default flash 8 component), and it works perfect on my hdd but when i’m uploading it, the controls wont load anymore.
I’ve searched the kirupa forum for this problem and double checked the possible ishues(the other guys had), but nothin.
The flv file is on the same directory with the skin file and the main swf and the html file, the same structure that is on my hdd.
help!