FLV Player!

Ive been recently using Flash 8’s NEW FLV player, but their are some things that annoy me about it. Such as the video autoloading! Is their a way to make sure that the video only starts buffering once the user has actually chosen to view it by clicking the play button?

Also i was wondering is it possible to add a play button in the middle, like most sites do these days, so you click on the actual screen itself to play so as to make playing the video easier. e.g. Google Video, youtube.


p.s - is their any sites where you can download “FREE” flv players?
just in case i can find a better one that the ones included with Flash 8.

Thanks again.