Is it possible to have the flash swf on one server and the mail PHP on another server? This is because my web server cannot run php script.
sure, i don’t see why not - though you may run into security issues with flash player communicating with servers that aren’t the same as the origin of the SWF - check out macromedia (er, adobe) web pages for this info. I believe there is some sort of config XML file in the webserver root directory that controls these things - if the XMl file cannot be found, it uses standards security settings; otherwise it adopts the security settings (with some limitations) of the config XML file.