gotoAndPlay certain frame in timeline: backwards and forwards

I had the idea of a circular menu, and when the user clicks on a menu item, that one rotates to the top, and becomes highlighted (hopefully with easing). I’ve searched around here for reversing timelines, etc. but can only find ones that go to the next set frame.

How do I get it to skip past the menu items in between? For example if #1 is at the top and I click on #4, I want it to skip past #2 and #3.

I hope this makes some sort of sense to you guys ‘n’ gals. Many many thanks in advance for any answers or nudges in the right direction.

Here’s a basic menu idea I had: