Help on final touches of menu

Hello and good moring… i have this menu on wich when you roll over a button you will have a cursor going to that button but when you press it that cursor will stop the roll over action and will just move when you press any other button, meanwhile i have a smaller cursor that will apear when you press any button and will move on roll over, doing the same action of the first cursor before any button is pressed… now the problem is that i cant make the cursor appear exactly where it has to, i am not very good on a/s so i have to do a little bit of everything, i post the fla so you can have a look, but if any of you know a way to do this just with a/s, please let me know!!! :link: