Help with AS and XML

Test Site
http://www.wmptest.com/aoh/

Basically some things I want to do:

Three images of kids come down when you first load the page, when you click on these images, it gives a lightbox effect and loads a larger version of the image. I would like to know if it’s possible to load a video file instead, while still giving that dimming lightbox effect.

My second change would be to build the menu with graphics, but the menu is all created with XML.

I imagine you all would need to look at the source files, so please PM me and I’ll provide everything. Please, this is very important, thanks.

There are also some minor questions I have, but I can discuss that later on.

I can provide the main.fla and all AS files.