How to control swf with query

created a flash movie with 3 key frames, in every frame i put stop so that every time you will query any of the frame it will not continue to play.

On the first frame i put


and in the second to the last i put stop.

on my html/asp page i tried query like this:


But is was not working. How do i manipulate that swf file with this query.

Thanks for the help