How to make a flash form work

I am having much trouble getting my flash contact form working. It is in a flash template that I purchased and I sure could use some help. I thought that it would be easy but it seems to be beyond me as to how it works. php is what I am looking at to use and when I highlite the button to use various scripts none of them work or I’m doing it wrong. I even tried the tutorial here and nothing. This is no simple form. If anyone could help me onto the path that would be great.

Thanks,
chipster