I need some advice

I’m creating a website with flash 5. I have one of my buttons “mouse over” to a certain frame number. This “mouse over” works when I “publish preview” but when I uploaded the swf file to my website, it links the “mouse over” command to another frame… which makes it look completely off… does any one have any ideas on how to fix this… I went through every frame and checked all the action commands… and everything seems to look right… all the other “mouse over” buttons seem to work fine.

I think the problem is that after the preloader the swf has not finished loading causing it to load the wrong frame… because when I wait a bit after the preloader is finished the mouse over problem goes away but I can’t expect the user to wait when it appears as though it is completely finished loading.

thanks,