I want simple icon list on right, that launches different FLVs with controller

I can get something close putting the following code in one of the icons buttons:

on(release) {
import mx.video.*;
this.attachMovie(“FLVPlayback”, “my_FLVPlybk”, 10, {width:320, height:240, x:100, y:100});
my_FLVPlybk.skin = “MojaveExternalAll.swf”
my_FLVPlybk.contentPath = “anim.flv”;
}

The following items I am missing that I would like are:

*The controller is missing even though the skin is in same folder.
*I would like animation to start paused. Do I use some form of “FLVPlayback.paused”?
*I would like to grab dimensions of flv I am loading, so can set width and height accordingly

Thanks for all help