Load movie under a graphic in main

Is it possible to load a movie in between 2 items on the main stage. (instead of loading an swf on level 1 then another over top on level 2).

The problem is i am loading an external film clip which is controled by buttons in the flash movie. they have to appear on top of the film clip.

if you use load movie clip. the clip appears on top of the buttons.

Im just trying to use as few load movieclip as possible as this is to go in to an email and stream across the web. all the components load externally. so the less to load the more band width.