Load swf into div on html page

seems simple enough.

my fingers hurt from trying things, and searching the web…

i have an html (php) page which contains

–a flash file with 2 buttons (which I could split into 2 files if I need to, but would prefer not to)

–2 hidden divs with swfs that have 2 main timeline movements

Basically each swf in its own hidden div is a ‘panel’ which comes into view when the user clicks its button. Because the swf actually moves into place (and has a working ‘close’ button which makes the object within the swf move back out of place), I am having trouble showing the div AND THEN playing the swf.
I’m really not sure if I should be doing this in javascript, or simply putting an link around each button within html, or doing the linking (geturl) in flash and then passing the link to the html page.

I can’t merge these items into 1 flash file, by the way.

Thanks for whatever help you can give!!

here is main page: http://aaronglazer.com/index3.php
here is one of the swfs I am bringing in http://aaronglazer.com/contact-panel.swf