Loading and unloading help please

Hey guys…

Well i was wondering is there away to load an external swf into its own flash projector instead of loading it into the same one as the parent exe is in?

coz im using the loadmovie and when i load it into the same projector as the parent exe the loaded movie bugs up coz theres commands in the loaded movie to load other movies but they always get sent far behind and also the coding also plays up alot when its loaded into the parent exe.

So is there away to load the external swf’s into there own flash project either using the loadmovie or loadmovienum code.

thanks for helping in advanced