Loading FLV at runtime...not playing until later

I may be approaching this all wrong, but I’m doing a site for a new movie so I have a trailer (and maybe a few other clips) that I want to progressively download. However, they shouldn’t play until I click the “trailers” section.

The rest of my swf is pretty small, so I haven’t felt it necessary to do a separate preloader for that, but I would like to make an opening preloader that loads my flv into place first, and then goes to the first screen of the site.

So basically–is it possible to load my flv first without playing it, and then actually have it play in my FLVplayback component (dynamically loaded later)?

And…umm…how? Am I being detailed enough?