Loading movies without immeadiatly playing them


I have managed to load a swf from a file in my movie, but it always seems to play immeadiatly after it loads. Is there any way to get it to stop?

This is similiar to the code I have tried(there has been several variations):

this.onLoad = function () {
_root.loadMovie("one.swf", _root.myMovie);
this.onEnterFrame = function () {

Does anyone know how to do this(or point me in the right direction)?

Any help would be greatly appreciated!