loadMovie - targeting HELP

Dire need of help,

I’m currently using the tutorial provided by kirupa.com, Preloader & Transitions for Dynamic Files.

Instead of a plain .swf file that is being loaded (loadMovie), i’m trying to load a .swf that contains a feedback form. As you may guess, the fields don’t show up but shows up fine if i open the swf directly. I read over the forums and how many people have had this problem and changing _root to _parent should do the trick. But i’m having no luck. Simply lost. Can someone please help out. TIA.