Multiplayer war game realtime

I am looking for the way in which you set up your .as files for such a game. the heirarchy or can i just use flash builder and flash pro. total newb but have the full cc collection. I am learning as i go reading and tuting it up but cant find any reference as to how i set this up. I am just going to use wamp to start with to connect and run the game and will worry about server connections when i get farther down the road. It is an evony type game but way more involved and using real world map. I am disabled and pretty much couch ridden so time is not an issue. but if someone could get me started i know i can do it.