Need help with movie clip that shows what you've clicked

here’s the site url: www.chrisribar.com/nps

what i want to happen: when you click on gallery -> then bfa, it shows a list of names (movie clips). when you rollover a name, it plays a yellow fade in and a fade out on rollout. when you click a name, it opens an external movie clip that takes up the fullscreen. i want the movie clip that was just clicked to stay activated (yellow - to show that you already viewed this one) but still be clickable.

my current script:

bfa01.onPress = function(){
_root.center_mc.antBHolster.loadMovie(“anthonyb.swf”);
this.enabled = false;
}

bfa01.onRollOver = function(){
this.gotoAndPlay(“in”);
}

bfa01.onRollOut = function(){
this.gotoAndPlay(“out”);
}

the this.enabled = false; keeps the name yellow but once you click it, you can no longer click this link. i think i’m really close and i hope I explained this as clear as possible. i just need to know what script would keep the movie clip stuck on the out. thanks for your help guys and gals.