Need help with simple menu system

Hey guys, Im a bit of a newbie, but so far grabbed code from all around to put this together. Basically i have no idea what to do next.

Here is the page that i need help with:
http://www.ednacional.com/port/SBliss.html

Here is what it looks like in the full site
http://www.ednacional.com/port/

Here is the FLA
http://www.ednacional.com/port/SBliss.fla

There are two problems,

1.) when you roll over one of the three little page icons the main photo changes but if you do it quickly across the three you can cause the main photo to crash and stop in between two transitions so it looks like two photos with 50% opacity layered on each other.

2.) i need the first page icon to be already on it’s roll over state once the blue info bar slides from the right. This allows the user to know that they already have the first page icon is selected.

Some one help, im kind of usesless when it comes to flash scripting.

Thanks!
Ed