Need pro help with file sizes

Howdy everyone

I know this is asking a lot but I’ve built my first flash website and for some reason it seems to take a long time to load. The preloader doesn’t even show up until 69% or so. I can’t seem to get it down smaller. I tried attaching jpgs (which are teeny) dynamically, loading the background music dynamically (which didn’t work - had to abandon), etc. but still big.

SOOOOO . . . I was wondering - if anyone has a moment if they could look at my files and see if they can find anything that could be improved? I will be adding more things to the site eventually, like a photo gallery and some mp3s to check out. I’m worried that it’s going to get so big no one will be able to access the site!

Any help would be GREATLY appreciated! :love:

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