Need tips regarding Flash Video Gallery

Ok I don’t know if I complicate things more than they should be or something, but I have been thinking and trying and failing for about 2 weeks, on how to create a simple video gallery. within the 500x325px size that contains about 5 vidoes, with play and pause controlls that doesnt autoplay when you open the file. :angry:

So I’ve gave up on my current attempt (loading movies from youtube)
because I didn’t grasp the actionscript.

So I need some tips on how to plan and create a video gallery from scratch that works on the net for most of the people and browsers. And if you have a template I’d appreciate that alot too :S

Thanks in advance.
-Dark