NOTHING WORKS...just kill me, thanks

HELP ANYONE,
i’m using FlashMXProfessional 2004 on my macintosh powerbook G4 and i’ve created a flash website that is approximately 688kb (large, i know)…well i’d love to have a preloader with a bar that fills as it loads…and for about 2 wks now, i’ve tried every f*ing tutorial on the world wide web, kirupa.com, actionscript.org, flashkit.com, and many more…everything does basically the same thing…the entire site loads with a blank workspace and then my website begins…nothing PREloads…nothing…and it’s killing me…here’s the site, www.jenniferjeanneboutique.com (i know it’s a crappy site, but i’m new and trying to make it work)…if anyone has any tips or help or anything at all, please let me know cuz this just sucks
peace
-sean