Opens php file when a send variabels

I have a flash and a want to talk to my php file with it.
A have variabels

my_lv.name=“kalle”;
my_lv.email=kalle@balle.se;

then a have to send the variaels to my php file using

my_lv.send(“bajs.php”,“POST”);

But every time a press send the swf file will open a new window with the php file in.
So how to do for only sending the varabel to the php file without opening ut.

I have try
my_lv.send(“bajs.php”);

but then the variabels dont get in to the php file.

Help any ??

// matte