Please help, unloading external swf then gotoAndPlay (frame)

I hope someone can help me with this. I’m an as3 newbie and I’m recreating my site.

My site contains 5 frames, each being a separate “page”. I have an external swf that loads on button click in frame 2 on the site swf.

When I unload the external swf, I want to get back to frame 2 of the site swf, only this isn’t happening, and I can’t figure out how to code this.

Can anyone give me advice on this?

The site is screwy, but here’s the link.
http://www.amitsaysalotofthings.com/
Thank you.