Real player radio through flash site?

Whats wrong with me i cant seem to figure out how to get a .rpm from real player to play, pause, skip to next .rpm link?:puzzled:

I can play an mp3 steam but the equaliser bar doesnt work? how if the above works, would i get the moving bobby-up-n-down bar thing to work?

Finally, am i stupid or is it hard to do?:cons:

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