Server-side Scripting

background:
running an asp.net webserver
hosted provider does not have flash remoting installed

what’s the best way to send an XML document through flash? i’ve tried creating an vb.net webservice but trying to process the my xml within the xml got tricky for me. i’ve tried .send and .sendAndLoad, which works, but they both redirect or open new browser windows which is undesirable.

help?

-ty