Sharp phone pc manager app?

hey all, due to my phone being busted over my holidays (yep im back :wink: ) I have to use my bro’s temp phone which is a “sharp gx10i”. The phone is alright and will do , but being the person iam id like to get some originality back in the phone and gets some wallpapers and sounds on there via my pc.

I do have a infared device both on my pc and laptop, but the software i found at the sharp website does not let you detect the phone via the infa-red.

Ive been looking for a while now to find software that will help me manager this phone (eg contacts / wallpapers / sounds)

any ideas?