Some PhP MySQL Help...please

Okay i did the tutorial on PhP and MySQL but my problem is they use

if(_root.checklog == 1){
_root.gotoAndPlay(60);

but since i’m using extrenal swf’s the “_root” comand doesn’t refer to the external swf. But i’m using “_root” to call the new external files so i can’t ancor the “_root” I’ve tried to change it to

if(_parent.checklog == 1){
_parent.gotoAndPlay(60);

but now nothing happens. I’m about sixty seconds from going postal on my computer trying to figure this one out. but i know when i do i’ll be a lot happier. If you want to check out my work to see what i’m talking about go to,
www.versusmediagroup.com

under the client login page and you’ll see what it looks like and how it doesn’t do a thing. To get the fla files go to http://www.versusmediagroup.com/kirupa/

its the client.fla file.

Any help would be really great.
Thanks