Understanding sql execution and asp

Im not understanding how to execute a sql statement for the database I created. I also created a form in flash that works with all this stuff, I need to understand this. The form is a simple quote request form that people input their name, phone, email and the description of what they want a construction quote for. Im thinking when you press submit the info the person inputted is sent to the database and then a thank you box is sent back to the person. Im not sure what happens to the info that was sent to the database does from there. My client needs to be able to read the quote description and reply back. Can someone please explain to me how this works?

Thanks, Oswald