What language would I use to

What language would I use to…
make an online RPG type game? Like ‘neopets’ or something like that (with the login, money, ect…)?

I thought it was something like PHP (but I’m not wiz with computer languages).

Would I need something special thing for this language? Like a database that only comes with those hosts that you pay for?

[left] Sorry for sounding like an idiot,
-bob
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P.S. Wasn’t sure to put this in Game Programming or Here. But since its for a web site, I shoved it in here. Feel free to move this (not that I have a say O_o ).*[/size]