Animated Rollover Question

Hello

 I am trying to make an animated button and have been successful in using the tutorial in kirupa that shows me the actionscript for creating this effect. 

http://www.kirupa.com/developer/mx2004/button_effect.htm

but what if i wanted the movie to fade in the circle and then allow the user to roll in and roll out?

when i tried doing this the actionscript did not want to stop at the frame with the rollover actionscript when reversing frames instead it wanted to go all the way back to the beginning when the button fades in

i need a more efficient way of telling flash not to go back to the beginning of my movie when the user performs a rolloff message

anyone know the way?

this graph is depicting what i want to do

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… actionscript for rollover button
intro fade in …rollover animated button

imsoconfused :o/